How I Approach Therapy
Therapy for individuals, couples, relationships, and families
“We’re all just walking each other home.”
What We Can Work On
Anger
Anxiety and Worry
Communication and Assertiveness
Attachment Issues
Body Image Issues
Boundaries and Codependency
Dating Relationships
Depression
Emotional Intelligence and Emotion Regulation
Family Issues
Family of Origin Issues
Goal Setting and Problem Solving
Grief and Loss
Guilt and Shame
Historical and Intergenerational Trauma
Hopelessness
Imposter Syndrome
Loneliness
Committed relationships, Marital Issues and Divorce
Parenting and Co-Parenting
Religious Trauma
Trauma and Post Traumatic Stress
Self Esteem
Stress
Women’s Issues
Theories I Use
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Theories I Use 〰️
My clinical training spans a range of therapeutic modalities, allowing me to integrate approaches based on each client's goals and needs. The foundations of my work are Narrative Therapy, Systemic and Family Systems Therapy, Structural Family Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Systemic and family systems therapy is based on the idea that our lives don't happen in isolation. The ways we think, feel, and respond are shaped by our relationships, family dynamics, culture, and the environments we're part of. Rather than asking, "What's wrong with you?" this approach asks, "What has happened around you, and what patterns are keeping you stuck?"
Whether you're coming to therapy as an individual, couple, or family, we'll explore the patterns that influence your relationships, communication, and emotional well-being. Together, we'll identify the cycles that create conflict or disconnection and work toward healthier ways of relating to yourself and the people who matter most.
The goal isn't to place blame, it's to create understanding. As you gain insight into these patterns, you'll have more freedom to make intentional choices, strengthen your relationships, and create lasting change that extends beyond the therapy room.
Narrative Therapy is based on the idea that you are not your problems. We all develop stories about ourselves through our experiences, relationships, and the messages we've received from others. Sometimes those stories become so dominant that they leave us feeling stuck, anxious, ashamed, or disconnected from who we truly are.
In therapy, we'll get curious about those stories instead of assuming they're the whole truth. Together, we'll explore where they came from, how they've shaped your life, and whether they're still serving you. As we identify your strengths, values, and moments that don't fit the problem story, you'll begin to build a fuller, more accurate understanding of yourself.
Rather than trying to "fix" you, narrative therapy helps you reconnect with the person you've always been beneath the self-doubt, expectations, or painful experiences. The goal is to help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and freedom to live in a way that reflects what matters most to you.
Structural Family Therapy focuses on the patterns, roles, and boundaries that shape our relationships. Over time, families, couples, and even individuals can develop ways of interacting that once made sense but now create stress, conflict, or disconnection. Rather than focusing on who's at fault, this approach helps us understand how these patterns developed and what needs to change for healthier relationships to emerge.
Whether you're coming to therapy alone, as a couple, or with your family, we'll explore the ways you relate to the important people in your life. Together, we'll strengthen communication, create healthier boundaries, and shift unhelpful interaction patterns so relationships feel more balanced, supportive, and connected.
The goal isn't simply to reduce conflict, it's to create lasting changes in the way you experience your relationships. As those patterns begin to shift, many people find they feel more secure, understood, and confident both within themselves and with the people they care about most.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is based on the idea that our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are closely connected. Sometimes we develop patterns of thinking that, while understandable, can leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or hard on ourselves. CBT helps identify these patterns so you can respond to life's challenges in ways that feel more balanced and effective.
Together, we'll explore how your thoughts influence your emotions and behaviors, while developing practical tools to manage stress, improve coping, and create meaningful change. Rather than simply trying to "think positive," CBT encourages realistic, compassionate ways of understanding yourself and approaching difficult situations.
The goal isn't to change who you are, it's to help you recognize the patterns that no longer serve you so you can feel more confident, resilient, and equipped to navigate life's challenges.
My Style:
My style is often described as relatable, open-minded, empathetic, and relational. I believe the relationship between therapist and client is the cornerstone of successful therapy. For therapy to be effective, it requires transparency from you, the client, and I believe you deserve the same openness from me.
I take a client-centered approach, trusting that you hold the inner wisdom and strength to create the changes you seek. My role is to help you tap into that wisdom and empower you to harness your own potential.
As a systems therapist, I view your challenges through a holistic lens, considering how various factors, such as biology, psychology, social systems, history, and spirituality, interact and influence your life. This expansive perspective allows us to uncover deeper insights and foster meaningful growth.
While there are times when simply listening, affirming, and holding space are essential, I also see myself as a seeker and reflective listener. I ask thoughtful questions and offer curiosity to help you explore your feelings and experiences, guiding you toward the progress you desire.
My goal is to advocate for healing, wholeness, and emotional freedom. I genuinely want you to feel good about yourself and to enjoy your life.
I also integrate creativity, somatic interventions, and humor into the therapeutic process, knowing these elements can enhance healing and growth.
Ethics are at the heart of my practice, and I am deeply committed to upholding the highest ethical standards in every session.
I believe that therapy doesn't end when the session does. Resources such as books, podcasts, and handouts can support your journey outside of therapy. I often provide these tools to help you "take therapy home" and continue your progress between sessions.